Tuesday, December 15, 2009

​Before they get into a relationship, shouldn't people know who they are and what they want and need in life?

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  1. Now THIS is an interesting question. Let's look at it.

    "shouldnt people know who they are. . . .?"

    You can look at it like most people and say "yeah, you should know who da other person is".

    But you should also look into the mirror. Nah mean? Who are you? What do you stand for? If you don't know that, then finding a match will be really difficult.

    -RAP, II

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  2. Yes. How can you know another if you cannot yet know yourself? How can you meet the needs of another if you don't know or understand your own needs. I don't believe you can give to another without understanding what it means to give to yourself. If you do, you end up with feelings of resentment and anger because your needs are not being met. We then blame our partner when in reality.....it was us.-rs

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